Visual stimuli are one thing. A man likes to look, a woman likes to look good. Actually, everything is perfect, or not? If I feel like a massage, it depends very much on my mood on what kind of treatment I feel like. It also depends on how much I value the appearance of the masseuse.
So there are offers where the health aspect of a massage is absolutely in the foreground. Back pain? Well, almost everyone has it. The erotic factor is then less important and it fits the overall picture if the masseuse is either sporty or dressed in a light uniform (often in Thai massages).
Then there are moments when I just want to relax and enjoy on a higher level. To go on a journey of feelings and to feel with the body the receiving touches. Usually these are Tantra massages, which I choose for this need. Here, too, the visual aspects are secondary. In the beginning at the greeting, both dressed in a kimono, then the ritual stripping of the cover. It is here the nakedness of both, which causes a certain stimulation. Typical erotic stimuli do not arise, however, are also not wanted in Tantra.
Now there are also days when I want to satisfy a deeper sexual desire through a massage. No classic sex, no, just a really erotic massage it should be - the dirty senses should pop! You already imagine in advance how the masseuse wears nice underwear, high heels, stockings.... But many will know the problem: Even if the lady actually receives you in such an outfit, you hardly have the opportunity to let it work on you. Because as soon as you lie on your stomach, your field of vision is severely restricted. What a dilemma!
To answer the title question from my perspective: How sexy does she have to be? Quite simply: as sexy as the offer. If the offer demands it, then I want a woman to play with her charms. She should create a constant erotic mood through her appearance, her manner. Beautiful lingerie is then the icing on the cake and I am a returning guest when it comes to satisfying my "dirty senses" once again.
